Crossdress with confidence

Hi Everyone. My name is Renee and I am a newer member to the community. I have crossdressed off and on for over forty years. I started when I was sixteen and wearing my mom’s and sisters clothes whenever I had the chance. I once found my mom’s old cheerleader uniform and, without thinking about it, I woke up one of my sisters to see me in it. She must have been really sleepy because all she said was “That’s nice” and went back to bed. I never heard another thing about it so I think she forgot about it. There were a few times when I almost got caught wearing their things but escaped that. After college and going to work I got married and did not think about it again until about 8 years ago. We went to a Halloween party and she decided that we should go as me being the cheerleader and her as the quarterback. So she made me my very own skirt and we got a sweater that she put a school logo on. We actually got dressed at her mom’s house and her mom helped me with some makeup. The feeling of going out like that was really something. A few guys there made fun of me because I was wearing pantyhose but I gave them a girly stare back and told them that they weren’t brave enough to try something different.  The urge to try something on got to me and I did try a few things of my wife’s. Knowing that I did not want to ruin any of her things I went out one day after going to the beauty salon and bought my very own first bra and panty set. That was it. I was hooked again. I have grown my wardrobe quite a bit since then and dress whenever I have the opportunity.

I am not one to go out enfem but I do admire all of those who take the opportunity when it arises. I know that there are those who look down on us as someone who needs help because we are not normal. But the gender lines are being crossed more and more each day and I hope to see that one day we can go out and show the world that it is more than clothes that make a person. It is a feeling that being feminine when you are a guy is truly a wonderful feeling.


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Dianne Baldwin
Dianne Baldwin
7 years ago

There is nothing wrong with the way we feel or think. It is Avery important part of our make up and I tried denying it for years and was very unhappy till I rediscovered my femminne side.
Also wish there were groups in Canada were to reserved up here to how our true feelings

Dame Veronica Graunwolf
Active Member
Reply to  Dianne Baldwin

Hi Diane! Where abouts are you in Canada? There are loads of cross dressing places. Let me know your locale. Lady Victoria Graunwolf

Lucinda Hawkns
Trusted Member
7 years ago

no there is not a thing wrong with dressing up as a female, we are showing our feminine side and enjoy our fem side. we are not weird either. woman dress in men clothing all the time so why not men wear female clothing some times but more then we should for some of us like me. i feel that i was born in the wrong body, i am male with a female brain and body figure. 28 waist thin not a lot of hair on legs or chest, feminine behind. when i dress up in a dress i feel… Read more »

Patty Phose
Famed Member
7 years ago

The first time I went out fully dressed was also for a Halloween party. I was 18 and it was at a college. I went as part of a couple too. She was the guy. I was the girl, or as he described it “boss and secretary”.

I got lots of looks and compliments. We won “best couples costume”. I won “sexiest costume” and “best legs”.

It was such a blast.

romi chambers
romi chambers
7 years ago

Just got 2inch heels they make ya change the way you walk helps tone the legs also !

Renee T
Renee T
6 years ago
Reply to  romi chambers

That does it to me also Romi. I have 2 pair of 3 inch heels and I they make my legs feel very different, but nice. Can you feel your hips move a little different also?

romi chambers
romi chambers
6 years ago
Reply to  Renee T

Yes legs held in narrower , chest more straighter for balance helps with lady like gestures as you walk!

Active Member
4 years ago

If you think about it all that is worn by women also in some point in history was also by men. Romans wore dresses, scotts wore skirts, french wore makeup, british wore wigs, colonials wore corsets and garder belts, and in twentys men wore swimsui5s that covered the chest as in a one piece. So we just brought back styles from th3 old days to today.

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