I would describe confidence as knowing all the way down to your core that something is true. That you have a picture in your mind that it already happened with the outcome you desired.
Womanly confidence is when that valve opens and the feminine energy flows like a fire hose. For us, that can mean a total lack of guilt, shame and doubt.
I sometimes can feel it. It makes me feel like all the stars are aligned and this is meant to be. Total confidence for me would be growing my hair out and getting it styled, wearing makeup, dressing like a woman 24/7 and not caring what anyone thinks. My ultimate goal!