Congrats. But remember – baby steps? The best way of not drawing attention to yourself is to .. wait for it…. NOT draw attention to yourself. So a little black dress is perhaps a little too much for your first steps?
My take on this is to ‘hide in plain sight’ by wearing clothing appropriate to the situation. If I want to wear a bright red dress – I do so. The logic being that people would assume I must be female, because a man would never dare to draw attention to himself by wearing such a bright dress like that in public. And it works! Really ! It does. It makes you kind of invisible. This comes from a lot of practice judging peoples reactions. Of course, I wouldn’t wear a little black (or red) cocktail dress whilst out walking the dog.
Some CD’ers think that going about all covered up, when all around them girls are wearing strappy summer dresses, somehow hides them from scrutiny – it doesn’t, it draws attention to them!
So experiment and enjoy!