Thanks for sharing sometimes it helps to just get it off your chest even if its a 42DD chest . LOL
Seriously sweetie my wife just barely tolerates my dressing and I have limited opportunities to do so.
I get really frustrated at times and I have to be careful as I want to turn that frustration on her.
Even though I understand her view point.
The best we can do, I feel is try to stay in what ever boundaries you have with her.
I have had several conversations with my wife and we talk about it she doesn’t like seeing me dressed but will tolerate it occasionally.
Most times I go out to another town close by to dress so I don’t get outed by someone we know.(part of her requests)
I totally understand how you feel so you vent to us anytime, thats what we are here for.