IMO, you have some lifestyle decisions to make. Your posts indicate that you love this girl, and she obviously cares very much about you. IF you are thinking about a lifetime commitment to her, then she deserves 100% of you. That is, you can consider yourself Bi, but you must (or should) forego acting on your urges. Not as hard as it sounds; in my time, I’ve had “the hots” for a couple of lovely women, but I promised my wife 100% of me, and I kept that promise. And as for the CD, her actions indicate she isn’t going to force you into choosing between her and Dressing, but you should expect there to be some limitations (which almost every married gurl on CDH lives with). Whichever route you choose to make, I wish the best to you both.