One thing that I needed to add. If you haven’t told your S.O. and you are cross dressing, getting make overs and going out dressed, then you tell her, you run the risk of her thinking that you have been deceiving, doing these things behind her back and lying about where you have been. I came out to my wife before I had even bought anything. Her reaction was positive and so I then went and bought lingerie, make up and a wig. I was open about everything that I have bought.