So, I live in a big city and there are still far and few places that seem to be open about being a CD meeting group. I also work second shift so I understand completely missing out on meet-ups. Several non-CD groups are missing out cause they meet during second shift, which I work. Meetup.com has a few for drags, trans, and the like so starting there isn’t a bad thing.
This place is also great for making your own support group. I have talked on and off with several girls from my state. Several of them we have talked about going out dressed up together at some point. I would love to create a CD support group or something.
Other things to look for is Drag Nights. Most people won’t look twice as CDs or Trans when visiting Drag Queens as well as it is never a bad thing to look for CD vacation spots or nearby and more liberal cities to do a day trip to.
Sorry to hear about my the wife, my sincerest condolences.