This post has been on here a whileI missed it.
I think before I really knew who I was I tried living through my wife by Buying her sexy cloths and lingerie I believe I wanted to wear.
She would humor me on most purchases once to make her hubby happy and that was the last I would see of it.
she is not much of a girly girl either.
Now I do live vicariously as Val said through other women,I so love the individual creativeness of women and I love to study their looks.