Not that I’m sure it does or should matter but I smoke and drink, but don’t spit. I quit for two years, and wish I could again.
Correct me if I’m taking it wrong but in your thread you write “any other smoking ladies here?, would love to chat”, which makes it seem you would prefer conversations only with other smokers. Isn’t that in itself being a tad selective and judgy?
We are a very blended community with members who have varied preferences and its sometimes easier to leave some of the information that is largely irrelevant to the main subject matter out to reduce conflict and judgemental comments that can always happen with any group of individuals with their own set of opinions.
We accept most people openly and understand that some may have vices, we’d generally rather dwell on the commonality of crossdressing.
My two cents