I am so sorry to hear about your wife’s reaction. My own found out by accident (she saw an Amazon order). While she did not storm out, we have been treading in ROUGH water ever since… i hope both our wives come around and accept our complete selves… i understand it can be rough on them, but it is not an easy path for us either.
I really commend you on your courage.. it takes a lot to have the conversation. I wish that I had some of yours…
Good luck, with lots of prayers coming up your way.