Reply To: Planning our future and children

[Stephanie]

Hi Nadias wife, I’m so sorry, I know what you’re going through and it is awful especially if this was sprung on you years into your partnership like a lot of S/Os here. I can also relate to the pressure you’d be feeling to accept cross dressing into your life and the shame you might feel because sometimes it’s easier said than done. There is absolutely nothing I can say to ease your pain and uncertainty but I can recommend couples therapy with a sex therapist. Keep communicating with each other don’t push your own boundaries as this will just lead to resentment and if you can’t come around to accepting cross dressing then that’s okay, remember this is your life too and you deserve happiness and to be your authentic self just as much as your husband.