I had been dressing for a couple of years when I met my wife. She liked Patty. She was impressed and amazed at how pretty and sexy I was as Patty. We ended up becoming girlfriends. She suggested, when we go out I should go as Patty. I had been driving around in the car and getting out in numerous places to show Patty off, and had been to countless college parties as Patty, but these were all in controlled circumstances and environments. My new girlfriend was pushing me to do normal things.
My first outing with her was to a mall to do some shopping. I was scared to death to get out of the car and walk past all those people just in the parking lot. When I got out, I just looked straight ahead. I walked to the mall entrance. Fear was pushing me back, keeping me from entering. Finally I walked through the doors. OMG. There as so many people inside. We just kept walking. The fear began to subside a bit. Then we went into a store and began looking at pretty femme things. I began getting excited about getting some new things. The longer we shopped and walked around, the less nervous I became and the more excited I got. I even noticed we were getting looks from many people. Were they looking at a sexy young girl and a guy in a dress or two leggy girls in pantyhose and heels with pretty hair?
We both ended up buying a lot of things. What had started out as a very scary thing had become something that was so much fun. After that, when we went out, I would ask her if I should go as Patty or my male self. Except for when she really wanted us to go out as girlfriends, she would leave that up to me. I found I was going as Patty way more often then my male self. we also both found we had more fun when I was Patty. I guess it added an exciting and fun element to out relationship.