welcome , happy to have you join with us. Certainly a place to discover cross dressing and learn if there really is more to this. Our ladies here are fabulous in helping out, from advice to tips on improving ones self to the emotional feelings we are experiencing. As for tips in helping you may I suggest you start looking to assembling your own wardrobe. Firstly it would give you a self satisfaction and certainly a big step in your dressing. Her finding out about this I’m sure will cause problems as she may feel her space has been violated. As I have never my wife had brought up that very subject when first coming out. Her things are hers and not too be touched. I know as you have mentioned your wife doesn’t know about your dressing and that in itself is a dangerous issue so don’t place yourself in deep in combining a bad situation. Her finding out from misplaced clothing, Stretched out or worse ripped or torn. She will not be happy… believe me… there’s my tip hope not offend.
Your now part of a wonderful place to express yourself to who you would love to be. That lady deep inside and with the company of many caring and understanding gals who can help you with everything from dressing to makeup and all in between. So start enjoying all that we have and in a community that really supports and accepting for everyone.
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