Like the others, I’m sorry you had to deal with that.
About a week before, I had my own good beach day go bad in a different way. I was going to go to the beach (en femme), and had packed a change of female clothes and wig to go shopping on the way home. When I got to the beach, I discovered I left the change of clothes at home.
I didn’t want to go to the supermarket in just my coverup, so after the beach I went home instead to change. On my way to the supermarket, someone made a left turn in front of me and I couldn’t avoid an accident. Fortunately, I was not seriously hurt although the accident totaled the car. I don’t think anyone except the police and the paramedics (who were called just to check on me) suspected I was anything but female, but now lawyers looking for money from law suits are sending letters to me and I assume the other driver with police reports (with my male name). I think the other driver is getting a surprise.