I will share that in the past I cheated on my spouse. I’m not proud of this in any way. I went behind my partner’s back and had affairs with both men and women. I’m now on my third marriage and can’t be happier, and would not jeopardize it for anything. The guilt I experienced when I cheated was overwhelming.
Everyone experiences fantasies and unless both people in the relationship decide on an open marriage, fantasies should remain just that, fantasies.
Just my 2 cents worth.