My first wife cheated on me with one of my co-workers. It sidestroked my family and led me to thoughts of suicide. My father was a womanizer and cheated on my mom. He died of a heart attack while with another woman devastating my mom and our family. I will not cheat. I also will not judge those who do. We are all on a different path. It’s just not for me.
I have fantasies and so does my wife. I think that it is healthy to have them.
Oh my! I read my post. Spell checker did a number on me. I meant to say ” It devastated my family and led me to thoughts of suicide.”