If you go out Dressed anywhere near to where you live, you will eventually cross paths with someone who knows you. I had to face that truth when Bettylou began shopping at our local supermarket; but I do have confidence in my femme appearance, and I’m not at all sure I really care whether I am outed. Were it not for the restrictions put on me by my wife, I would cheerfully admit to being a CD
Can you be harmed by being discovered? Is there anything “bad” about being a CD? If you can answer “no” to both questions, then don’t worry about it; relax and enjoy the ride.