Your celebrity quote is paraphrasing Oscar Wilde I think. I use this – meme? is it? quite a lot. For example “There’s only one thing worse than being a CD, and that’s NOT being a CD.” You can substitute any words in there you like . It can be quite amusing such as “wearing panties.”
Stephanie doesn’t look anything like her alter ego, at least from a few yards away, as long as she makes sure her body language is feminine. Anyone I know is not expecting to see a female version of me. So i count on the fact that I am hopefully hiding in plain sight. Time will tell…….