I cannot speak for others. However, I find my cross dressing to be -very- normal.
That being said, I am alcoholic but have not had a drink since 1991. Before I took my last drink, I tried many times to use willpower to stop. It never worked. Most people will agree, alcoholic drinking is not normal. Moreover, alcoholic drinking will eventually destroy your life, then kill you. I gained lasting sobriety through the Alcoholics Anonymous program.
“Normal” and “Willpower,” two interesting words and concepts.