Coming on here is a good first start. The people here are very supportive and helpful.
Going out in public without strange looks is called passing. There is a lot of information out there if you know what you are looking but terminology helps. “Hiding your bump” as someone put it is called tucking.
Otherwise there are a lot of articles on here about make up and dressing and everything you need to know.
I am still new to this too but I’ll help where I can. I am also too far away but you’ll get the hang of it all and as you make friends on here, you may find someone to meet in person.