haha – I recall your original post and even thought at the time….”Hmmmm, sounds like that guy might be into her!” 🙂 So, I’m happy you two got together!
Personally, I think the ceremony is a great idea. He’s got kids, things are discreet so on and so forth….so it goes. That’s how life always works.
Every relationship has more than its fair share of “hurdles” “issues” etc. to deal with.
At the end of the day, what’s the harm in any of that? Is it perfect? No. It never is with anyone. And you have a man that wants to commit to you and you love him!? GO FOR IT!
Honestly too, if he’s not out, that’s entirely his call. You can live with it, or not but that’s totally his call. And if you can’t live with that, ceremony is probably not the best idea.
Great post though – LGBT love is the best! 🙂