my SO was more supportive at first but i think i scared her, a brought out her own insecurities, by taking it farther than she thought i would very quickly. We have now settled on – she is tolerant of me dressing and even going out to parties but she does not want to see it or hear about it. She also gives me a bit of a disapproving look anytime i mention that i am going out. With the pandemic it has not really been an issue for her as i have not been able to go out (ugh!). i am just happy that she is tolerant of me being myself and hoping that her approval grows over time. She is my soulmate and if she insisted i would have to go back fully in the closet and live with it. But very fortunately that is not the case. i have to admit i am a bit jealous of Stephanie and others who have SO who enthusiastically support their femme selves.