Kelsey ..no need to be closest no more. Here enjoy expressing your self with many same mined gals all here experiencing their love to dress. And for you just opening up to your wife. That in itself is a very difficult step as I know is I did a few years ago myself. But joining in here help me in so many ways. Meeting with, chatting, sharing stories and best of all making friends was instrumental for me to accept myself and to have the confidence to pursue further . My wife has been supportive but with caution and has help me in little ways. This is a beautiful place to get the help , support and in making wonderful friendships. Very nice meeting you and welcome….