Alyssa…”I am severely lacking the motivation I need to get en femme”…
Please do not take this as a put down… if the motivation to dress is not there, then why do it?
I’m not sure how other girls feel, but I have never needed the motivation to dress. It is a feeling and sometimes a wave that washes over me (Pink Fog) that stirs a NEED to dress and express my feminine self. I have had to compel myself NOT to dress from time to time. Life has it’s way of eating away at my Mary Ann time and each moment I get to indulge in crossdressing are moments I truly cherish and look forward to.
So, if you need to get motivated… just try some of the little things (heels, lipstick, nylons etc…) and see if it urges you to move forward.
Hugs, Mary Ann