That is wonderful, Sophie.
For my wife and me, the major breakthrough was our 10th anniversary. It is our tradition that I make different plated meal for our anniversary each year. It is one of the few meals that we eat at the table. For our tenth anniversary, I made stuff burgers. When my wife got home from work that day, I was wearing my gingham sundress and flats. I said dinner would be ready as soon as I changed. I figured that she would want to enjoy dinner with her husband. She told me not to bother as I looked nice, and she knew I was most comfortable dressed as I was. It was the first time that my wife and I shared an intimate married moment with me wearing a dress.