Hi Jade and welcome. I must say, I love that name. Yes, fear is part of the process for all/most of us. Please, dont let it control you. I know that’s easier said than done, but so much of our fears are imaginary, and we let them grow into monsters. Don’t let that happen. A lot of people change their hair – women and men – everyone experiments with that at one time. Clothes shopping? For now, just say you’re shopping for a friend…. One day you will just start shopping for yourself when you realize nobody in the store cares!
We girls here care though, gain strength from us. It helped me tremendously. You’ll get through this hon, dont give up on yourself!