Hi Claire
Getting your thoughts in order is a good thing. I did a similar thing to you kept a journal, put my thoughts, my fears and tried to explain just why I am the way I am. My advice is to continue the way you are going, the fact your wife loves drag queens could be a good thing, he might be more accepting, however, she didn’t marry a drag queen so don’t take it as a definite. I think a good idea is to write a letter, take your time, get it into the right order and make sure it makes sense! I am not suggesting you just giver her a letter, but it will help you ‘practice’ for the day when you tell her. But it would appear you have decided you need to tell her, so get your thoughts in order and set yourself a target date. Obviously you need to be sensitive, you need to be alone with your wife and you need time to consider what has been said and giver her time to think about it. All this needs t be taken into consideration. I did all of these things, but I kept putting it off, you can always find a reason ‘why not’. Unfortunately for me I left it too long and got caught – believe me you do not want to do that!! As for the letter, make a decent job of it and once you have had the conversation you can give it to her so that she can read it in her own time and think about what has been said…………
I wish you the best of luck, just don’t leave it too long!…………
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