You are A fantastic mom like my mom was, at fourteen my journey started with my sisters help and and then my mom stepped in by telling me that is was alight to have those feminine feelings and not to be ashamed and enjoy wearing panties and nighties. she bought me my first panties and nightie, she didn’t want me wearing my sisters things. my dad also cross-dressed so there were no problems with my new found fascination. I grew up not having all the guilt and shame feelings so many young men have with wearing things female, and that made my life much better and well adjusted. I became A much better student and later A good father and husband. You can be very proud of the way you have handled your sons coming out and he will love you more than words can express. YOUR A GREAT MOM.