Ah, I see. Well, what happens in the S/O group is totally private, there’s no way for anyone to see it who’s not also a member of that group.
Her wall page will be visible to other members (minus activity in the S/O group). Any other of her activity outside that group such as posts here on the open forum will be visible.
Your profile page & activity here will be as visible to her as it is to any other member of the site, as far as I know.
Ok. Thanks for the clarification. I just want her to feel as safe as I do here. I want her to see me here but only when she’s ready and I want her to join here but once again only when she is ready.
Thanks to all of you here who help all of us understand ourselves and better navigate this life we have chose.