Great question Diane…
After 30 years of marriage, I recently (Aug 2020) came out to my wife (separated actually). She is still my soul-mate though.
She was surprisingly non judgmental. She loves/accepts me for who I am. However… she does not want to see the full ‘Genevïeve’. She can tolerate nail polish and panties… but thats about it. Recently I wore a pair of red thigh-high stockings. She made a comment but did not ask me to remove them.
To answer the question… my love of wearing feminine clothing/bling has not affected my relationship with my (ex)wife. She said she will always love me no matter what.