Wow that was a very interesting article Stephanie, I have never thought of myself as being two different people. I have always been able to flick between male and female roles. How has always been one of those intriguing questions, I just put it down to chemical reactions with in the brain. How else can we live being able to juggle two identities with comparable ease. I didn’t wake up one morning and decided to want to be feminine, it’s always be there from birth. Seems my chromosomes are fighting a conflict of control, and my brain automatically switches mode and I respond. God yeah I went through different levels of dressing, none dressing, searching for answers, but I have to be honest if I couldn’t be Theotherme then me, was moody, depressed and lost. The best way I can describe it is like breaking up with yourself. (Does that make sense?). What ever it is, we have a powerful draw to femininity and once we accept this passion and pleasure it becomes a powerful force we can’t and don’t want to stop. Should I have been born a girl?.,!!!!! Probably, but if I had, would I now be wanting to C /dress as a man?.Now that’s a question. As we get older we have reached the pinnacle of acceptance of ourselves, and a level of contentment we have been searching for, and oddly enough mental peace.
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