I was raised in the bible belt (the south) so I would have had an issue there. I served in the Army 23 years go get away from that mindset of southern towns only to replace it with another mentality of “toxic masculinity ” when I retired I found myself in the Midwest while not as bad as the bible belt can have its own variety of traditional thinking.
I found large cosmopolitan areas are less “traditional” and safer. Especially if that cosmopolitan area is a college town. They would be more open minded with all the things I like, such as bookstores, parks, and areas to fly my Drones (I like doing my own selfies with drones….better way to observe yourself when practicing enfemme).
That’s a partial solution I had to small towns and “traditional views”