It seems you can work on those problems. Ive had many dreams where I was a beautiful and sexy woman and I was outside some where and everyone was admiring my sexy legs in my shiny pantyhose and heels. My breasts were perfect shaped and my pretty hair was long and flowing. I bought some great clothes and wigs and went out in them.
So, you’re a little thing. Build yourself up a bit. Not into a hulking beasts. Just add a bit of muscle tone so you don’t look so thin and frail. You can always conceal that somewhat in your femme mode.
You have great femme legs but they are hairy? Remove the hair. Your arms are hairy too? Wear long sleeves in femme mode.
Just build yourself up enough to where you look like an avearge guy to others. Then conceal your less impressive features up and reveal your more impressive assets in femme mode. ow much you want to do this is up to you.