Ah yes, a falling out with the boss lady in a local CD/Trans group. All so familiar, over the years, and IMHO, probably part of our growing process.
My wife and I were on the administrative board of the local CD group. In recent years, the character of the group seriously changed, as did the “leadership.” We both resigned and moved on. We outgrew the group, particularly when it ceased to function any longer as a support group.
My goals? Pretty well have remained constant. Have fun being a girl and offer support to other girls.