In the midst of all this upheaval, there is one foundational issue:
It is Paramount the you take good care of yourself!!!
The problem is that in a depleted state, you may make an ill-considered decision or make the right decision but not be in shape to see it through.
Not a good situation…
I’m starting to see that and get that.
I think I’ve found this situation hugely triggering for all the reasons in my reply to Genevieve’s comment.