Reply To: Can someone please get this giant pink elephant out of the room

[Zoe North]

No, you are not the same person to her anymore!! You might be the same person to you but you have been hiding a large part of yourself from your SO the entire time you have been together. Not only have you been hiding your feminine side, but your SO now knows you have a capacity to be deceitful that she never thought possible. You are a stranger to her and she know needs to get to know you all over again but this time the whole you, not just the parts you have allowed her to get to know in the past!