I think one of the best things you can do is call a local beauty salon and ask upfront if they are DC or Trans friendly. Assuming they are, make an appointment. Get a complete makeover. You will enjoy every minute of it. Most good ones will style your wig, do your nails, and whatever you want. Make sure you go wearing fem clothes etc. It makes it easier for them to get the makeup right.
I found the only salons that won’t take you are the ones that have children present.
When you’re all done strut out of the store and take yourself shopping at one of the major retail stores for a new outfit. It will make you feel exhilarated for the rest of the day for sure.
Hope this helped. Go enjoy.