Here we go again. If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a hundred times.
The word “caught” implies that you’re doing something wrong! You are NOT doing anything “wrong”. Would you ever say you “caught” your wife, daughter, or girlfriend wearing pants???? NOBODY will ever accept us if we don’t first, accept ourselves!
Thanks a bunch! You’re right. We need to stop using caught because we aren’t doing anything wrong. I think being discovered is a much better way of stating it.