I’m thinking of finding an outfit i can wear to a bar. I’m thinking a nice body suit top (should help keep me tucked as well, and skirt to my knees with short boots. Suggestions?
In general, nice jewelry is the frosting on the cake. If you are an average size male or larger, tiny jewelry will only serve to make the size difference, compared to those Assigned Female At Birth (AFAB), more noticeable and attract attention.
Use colors and patterns to draw attention away from more masculine features. For example, dark colors make you look smaller; horizontal patterns tend to make you look less tall, etc.