We ourselves don’t know why we do this thing of ours, we just have to do it. IMO, the real issue is so much of what is “known” about us that isn’t true. We aren’t gay (mostly), we aren’t Drag Queens, and we aren’t sexual predators….but those are the common beliefs, which keep us isolated from society in general. We have a public relations problem which needs to be resolved. But I don’t know how to do it.