I don’t believe there is much information and a lot of “misinformation” with respect to crossdressing.
My impressions are it is seen and treated as more of a sexual thing. Like we only do this to “get off” and nothing more. That is certainly not true.
With respect to “older” gurls, there is even less information available. Geared heavily towards younger people.
This is not understood and different from being “Trans”, IMHO. There are times where I do want to dress like a guy. Not because the situation requires it, but because I want to. I would dress more as a gurl if circumstances were different.
Honestly, I want the best of both worlds.
Don’t we all?!