It depends on one’s interpretation of what “fully femme” means. In my case despite going out dressed for many years I was never – quite-fully femme. You see, I always changed in a quiet spot and stashed my man stuff under a bush, but I would carry with me a bag containing a pair of shorts, a T shirt and flip-flops for an emergency change if required. I began to see this as cheating. As a lack of confidence.
So one day I changed and set off with nothing manly with me at all. It was a revelation! At last I was “fully femme!” – for the first time!
Stephanie P 👩🏻