I am lucky to have a side gate I can use, which means I’m not in direct line of sight of the neighbours. I am still somewhat wary of being seen by them during the day time – hence my use of the side gate; during the day my immediate neighbours are usually not around so thats fine – but if they are in and I want to go out en femme I wear skinny jeans and a coat or jacket.
Initially when I went out during the day locally I would do a quick walk round the block and home; over time my confidence has grown and I walk round the local green spaces, through the housing estate – up by the shops too. Nobody seems to take any notice of me, I don’t pass I know that – but I dress to blend in.
If I have long enough I prefer to drive en femme to a nice place for a walk, over time I’ve got used to places where there are lots of people around 🙂