I am sorry for the unhappiness and pain you suffered! But I am happy to hear that Grace was there to help.
l almost feel that I am responsible for some of this as I noted the other a very strange response on one of they threads (it was hateful and very bigoted which I thought strange here).
And having been a system security admin in my past life. I looked at the profile of the sender it was not filled in. I guess I should have reported it. I guess even here it is a case of see something say something.
Again I am sorry you were hurt Kelly but I am also glad than you had a friend like Grace to help and comfort you!