Hi Jenny and welcome to CDH. I’m really glad you joined our happy little family. Have a look around the site and where you feel comfortable, join in.
Yes, you make perfect sense to me too. I don’t consider myself to be crossdressing either. I’m transgendered but I’m not a woman. But still my dressing style is consistent with my gender identity. I’m glad you’re able to transition. Bettylou is hardly alone in not being able to. I hope all goes well for you.
Again, welcome to the site. If you ever feel like venting, or want a shoulder to cry on, or just want to talk about everything and nothing at all feel free to PM me.