Hi Eddie and welcome to CDH. I’m so glad you joined our happy little family. Have a look around the site and where you feel comfortable, join in.
I see you started dressing fairly late in life. What made you decide to start after all these years? I like that in your profile you said “and keep it a secret for the time being”. Does that mean you’re willing to come out to your SO eventually? Just food for thought but I find that when the relationship looks like it’s getting serious that’s when I reveal my secret. But I don’t know your situation so you have to go with your gut on this.
Welcome again to the site. If you ever want to vent, need a shoulder to cry on, or just talk about anything and nothing feel free to PM me.