Reply To: How did you respond?

[Cath N.]

I was a weird case. I reacted positively and enthusiastically. Until it hit me 5 days later about what this meant. And then I got very angry. He had minimised it and I lost all trust on anything he said before and after that point. And never recovered trust in his word since. But I can be very unforgiving as a person when I feel like I have been played for a fool. The strange thing is he knew that I have deleted people from my life for less, how he thought I could forgive not being made aware of the extend of his feelings, is beyond my understanding.  Let’s say we haven’t recovered and I now see our relationship as “together for now” and no longer as “forever”.