Hi Em and welcome. I know what you mean about going crazy shopping for clothing and accessories, as one can spend a fortune….LOL I also know it’s hard having two wardrobes especially when you share the closet! It certainly is challenging to live two lives and it takes its toll on you. I wish I would have had the courage to share my interest in CD with my wife years before I finally just wore out and told her.
Best of luck on your journey girl friend,