I recently came out to my wife, it was a hit and a surprise to her but she said “do what you gotta do”
I feel confident that over time and me not pushing the issue or rubbing it in her face she’ll accept it a little more at a time, I just have to be patient and plan carefully.
today I’m cleaning the rugs upstairs wearing sexy but comfortable yoga pants with panties underneath and she’s aware, I have an old t shirt that is a little long that matches the color of my yoga pants and she is ok with it. Tonight when we go out to dinner I’ll be underdressed with Panties and silk pantyhose and she’ll be ok with that as well.
from other success stories I’ve read on here it seems like the key is “patience” and go slow with it, as another girlfriend on here said let the SO ask the questions and bring it up.