Sammy …Welcome , this is certainly the place you’ll find many of the answers you are seeking. For you it would be extremely difficult. The shock I’m assume and now what to do, what to do for him, do for you and to whats happening between you two. We had many talks and through this agreements and guidelines were set and together were slowly working it out. But Cdh and it’s resources helped my wife and myself understand more about our individual troubles. I learned more about myself and she with help from a wonderful group we have here exclusive for my wife where many GG gals like yourself and I see you’ve already joined it, that’s wonderful and that in its self will help you in many ways. Look into other forms written by others who talk about their experiences, their questions they may ask with many offering help and advice so everyone can understand better on so many confusing topic . Many face this troubling ordeal but be assured you have support and help from everyone here . Relax, get comfortable and enjoy being part of this wonderful community that really does care for all that passes through our doors. The best to you both as you venture through these new paths together . Very happy meeting you and welcome.